You know, I have a few blogs bookmarked and I check them every day or so to see if they’ve been updated. Most of the time they haven’t and I find myself getting annoyed, thinking, ‘Gosh, what can they be doing that makes them neglect updating their blog?’
And only (shockingly) recently have I twigged to what a massive hypocrite that makes me because, uh, Selise? Yeah, you have a blog. Remember? And you haven’t updated it in a good while.
And I mean, of course it’s not because I’ve actively decided not to post. The truth is, I’ve actually forgotten about it for long periods of time, which seems so weird when I think about it.
It’s just all life stuff, you know? But ugh, there’s this bizarre pressure (internal and external) to keep updating. Stay relevant. You wanna stay visible.
I was talking to a friend over drinks on the weekend about how there’s this whole crummy feeling of unless you document what you’re doing, it’s not actually happening. Which is L-A-M-E.
And also has nothing to do with the dress and cardigan and docs I wore. Oh but actually, no, maybe it does. Because this is what I was wearing when we talked about it. So, there you go. This has all tied up nicely for you.